Is money = love?

Many people that I saw told me that they do not see the urgency to plan. Most of them don't even want to think about unfortunate things that can happen to them and bring financial ruins to them and their loved ones. Even though it's clearly shown to them.

They also told me that they know how to care and love their family in their own way. They said that they do not need to have insurance to show that they love their family. Insurance payout is not love.

To me personally, money is not love. Just by giving money, it doesn't mean love. But to me, leaving behind a financial burden to your family is definitely NOT love.  That is called ignorant and stupidity.

That's why if you really really really really really love your family, show them that you are commited to what you said. If you love them and you know that you don't have enough if something unfortunate are to happen, go and get the insurance that you need! Whether it's to pay the outstanding house loan, the medical expenses, the living expenses and etc.

Getting an insurance is a real show of commitment of your love!



Let me ask you, "Do you want a husband who said I love you, but never buys you any gifts, any flowers, bring you for dinner, walk in the park, help with the household, kisses/hugs and etc?".

To me that is one crappy husband. Saying love but no action.

But that's what most people out there are doing. Do not follow them!

You are people of value. You know that you care for your loved ones. You know that you want to provide and give the best to them.

If you still have parents, spouse, kids and people that love you, please plan! If you dont want to do it for your sake then do it for their sake!

Can you imagine, if you got ill or got into an accident and you cant work anymore, who is going to take care of you? Your loved ones definitely will. Your parents will take their retirement money to support you, your spouse will have to find work to earn for you, your relatives and friends may try to raise donation for you, your kids will have to be taken care by a maid and etc.

Do you know how much burden you give to others if you are being ignorant? Don't you feel ashamed?



Cheers! Have a great day.

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