In sickness and in health

                                                       
                                                               Taken from Sunday Times

I'm sure that many people know the above title, especially those who are already married. In my vow, I said that I will love my wife and take care of her in sickness and in health. That is a part of the vow and a very important one. So that is what the article above will tell you, how couple take care their spouse and still loving him/her no matter what. You will know what are their struggles and triumphs as being a care giver for their spouse.

I will just share with you some of the quotes that I felt are very important:

1. "...when one falls ill, it is inevitable that the spouse is the first line of support."

2. "Whatever the gender, there are big lifestyle changes when one partner falls critically or chronically ill. Often, too, there is emotional fallout."

3. "You are grieving but you can't let that part show when the other party is sick and down. If both spouses are down, that's it."

4. "Hefty medical bills add to the stress and often, there are complications to illnesses which can range from stroke to heart attack to chronic ailments such as diabetes".

5. "...gave estimates ranging from $60,000 for Mr Wong's treatments and day care services, to $800,000 for private oncology treatments for Mrs Chan."

1 couple even told their story how they upgraded their house from a 3 room flat, to a maisonette and to a private apartment during their 40 years marriage. Then they are forced to sell the apartment and their car to pay the medical bills.

I was so emotional reading this kind of story. Real story, real people and real love.

I know for sure that people will survive, no matter what kind of storms coming to their life. But to me, if we can mitigate the financial risks of being critically ill, why don't we do it now?

At least it will take away the burden of the monetary issue. You will be able to focus and take care your spouse better. You will not have to worry about selling your house, selling your car, paying your daily bills and expenses, etc.

If you love your spouse, why don't you give the best? Is your vow an empty vow?

Plan now and don't keep waiting. No one knows who will get sick next.



Cheers! Have a great day.